〒 2026, Never Use Negatives, The Tikun Project

Always Use Positives

In any meditation or Positive Affirmations you do, please always use positives and never use negatives.

Why is this? ↟↟

When I was studying psychology, my teacher taught us that when we are small children, we only think in positives and it is usually (in most cases) that we learn negative "attributes" (including words) through pain or suffering.

A classic example of this is when our parents tell us "Not to touch" something - and then we do touch it - we get a smack (or worse) plus the reinforced verbal stern voice saying "NO' or some derivative of No.

Negative Example ↟↟

A parent says to the child, "Do Not Touch". But the child hears "touch".

So when they touch the "thing" they were told not to touch, it is almost always accompanied by a smack and a stern or even violently explosive vocal (parental sound byte) - which is usually the words "NO" or "DON'T TOUCH" etc.

This is how most small children learn to associate the negative - with pain and (sometimes) even fear.

Extreme Negative Example ↟↟

I am including this excerpt of my life for those who beat their children. Please stop.

I grew up in a very poor family so when we did something wrong, as punishment my mother would often say, "no dinner for you tonight". (or tomorrow or a few days)

You may think that this is harsh on very small children (under 10), but I can assure you that we were very happy to miss meals because the alternative was to be beaten with a stick (shillelagh) or cord until my mother became exhausted.

One day when we were living in a rural location, the teacher (we only had 1 for all 7 grades) kept us back (because some of the other kids were naughty in class - so we all had to suffer) and as I walked home, I saw my mother come to greet me.

She said that she was worried about me so I explained what had happened at school. She then locked her fingers into my hair and proceeded to literally whip me with a 6 foot (2 meter) cord every single step of the way home, pausing several times because her arm was tired.

Many times I got hit several times per step (because she would stop walking) and if I fell down, I was beaten worse and dragged along the road.

When I finally broke away - incurring much hair loss - I slept in the sugar cane field that night.

The fact that I was still 3/4 a mile (1 Km+) from home did not help.

The benefit of this (to me) was that I did not mix with other children after school, as many kids were prone to do in those days, and I became focused on "other" things. I started asking "WHY" questions.

This also pushed me away from friendships and many relationships and gave me another focus which was of a more spiritual nature. I was never a victim, I simply set sail (??) for another direction.

The main reason that I rarely got involved with others was because I realized - even at such a young age - that I might perpetuate my mothers angry outbursts, and I was self-conscious enough to understand how detrimental that would be to me in the short and long terms.

Even to this day, I do not see the point of my mother beating me for something of which I had no control.

I do not recommend my mothers approach as a training method.

Consider Love ↟↟

When you want to tell someone "You Love Them" - do you say "I don't hate you?" - or do you say the positively reinforcing words, "I Love You?".

This positive reinforcement of your feelings towards the other person applies on all levels - from the most basic understanding of any language - right up to intellectual sarcasm.

If genuine, this positive reinforcement of your feelings towards the other person has a much more profound affect on the other person from a quantum level and may actually be visibly displayed in the enhancement of their "BioPhoton" BioPhotons field.

More Info Here ↟↟

Side Note

Think about how you personally feel when you are told by someone you care about that "They Love You"?

Example 2 ↟↟

For most of you who have paid thousands of $$$'s or £'s or €'s (a lot of money) to attend advanced sales and marketing courses - which I have done on many occasion previously - we were taught to always ask positive ending questions.

We were told that any negative question you ask (generally) causes people to stop thinking and lose focus on your words.

Never Ask Why (Why) ↟↟

Then there are STOP words like "WHY" and "IS THERE A REASON...".

When you ask questions beginning with who, how, what, when or where - people are more generally comfortable thinking and answering these questions. Colloquially known as "the 5 W's" .

This same principle also applies to you personally.

But when you ask questions beginning with WHY, people stop responding to you because this makes them think deeply and unfortunately, most people do not like that.

Think about how you feel when someone drops the WHY question on you.

Many people focus on questions - Monkey Mind - when they should be focusing on their meditation or Positive Affirmation.

With a little practice, you can learn how to control your "Monkey Mind" .

When you ask someone "Is There A Reason" you want X, Y or Z - it is usually less confrontational than asking Why, but it may still backfire on you.

Another way of wording this question would be "Is this for a special occasion"? - This is much less "confrontational".

Alternatively, they may also become "afraid" of divulging too much information to you so they mentally "go dark" (generally speaking).

Apply ↟↟

When you apply this logic - with sincerity - to your own mental processes, then you may have a greater chance of being more successful.

Some general examples ↟↟

Who? - Asking about a person
• Who is this for?
• or: Is this for your wife?
What? - Asking about an object or action
• What color would you like Blue or Red?
When? - Asking about a time
• When is the best day to deliver?
• When is the best time to deliver?
Where? - Asking about a place
• Where should this be delivered to - your home or office?
How? - Asking about the way something is done
• How can I advise you it has been delivered?
~~Why?~~ (try very hard not to use)

Why is this important?

Words and Thoughts have power - control and use these powers to "your" spiritual advantage.

Because if you are meditating or doing "Positive Affirmations" , you need to give yourself the best chance that you have of being successful.

This can only be done if you do not sabotage your spiritual journey by embedding negative land mines along your spiritual path.

Personal Sabotage Examples ↟↟

Someone asks "How are you?"

You respond, "not bad".

See how you have just used a double negative where the second negative reinforces the first negative?

YouTube Example

When you watch YouTube, you will (most commonly) hear the person say, "Don't forget to subscribe?".

Again we have the double negative at work. Same principle as the previous example.

Please - Thank You - etc ↟↟

Another limiting factor is when people do not ask using the word Please and then they often neglect to say Thank You at the end of their request.

Humility and even Contrition (where applicable) are attributes of personal spiritual discovery which most people rarely hear about and in todays world of psy-ops arrogance portrayed in movies and on TV, even less commonly seen.

When you ask with the word Please, it shows a lower amount of arrogance.

Arrogance is when people decide that they deserve "something" regardless of their right (or other) to have this.

However, humility is only as good as your true intent.

Money is a common example, people focus on money as their happy moment instead of utilizing the opportunity they have of evolving spiritually, recalibrating their BioPhoton frequency and living a much more fulfilling list.