Having Spiritual Children
If you want to have Spiritual Children, please consider what you put into your body AND where your mind is before conception.
Taking Opioids may cause birth defects. This is a long term problem for both parent and child and literally robs most parents of their life and that is the easy part.
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Think of how the child feels.
Then you have alcohol which around the 1980's there was a study published where the scientists claimed that the long term use of alcohol by the father left children mentally impaired (not 100%) because the alcohol somehow affected the "P" factor in the brain - which is supposedly one of the chemical trigger elements for intelligence.

I have seen many times, children who are beautiful but dull. All of these impaired kids have alcoholic or heavy drinking fathers.
Remember that whatever is in your body, this is what you pass onto the child.
Your Mind & Heart
The same applies to your heart and mind.
If you are projecting negativity, guess what the child absorbs?
I used to regress people back to the womb and they could recall conversations their parents had including hateful comments about having "a" baby.
While the "baby" did not understand the words at that time, they eventually did and this formed a negative lattice structure in their brain and thus their personalities.
There is a reason that most girls marry someone who resembles their father and most boys marry someone who resembles their mother.
Sadly this is extremely common in violent and abusive families.
It is because the person did not try and elevate themselves above the cesspool of life they were brought up in.
Love
- Meditate on love as a family.
- Communicate - it is your second greatest gift.
- Be kind to each other.
- Remember that one of you must always be the adult when the other person is falling down.
- Do NOT play games, it is tedious and destroys more relationships that you know.
- Have a spiritual goal together, this way you grow together, together.
- Making love is NOT love. Love is love and the experience is so much more satisfying and fulfilling.
- Do not just have children. Plan to have children and eat healthy food and drink healthy water. Get plenty of natural Vitamin D.
The higher the quality of your combined love, the higher the spiritual essence of the child you will draw down and "beget"
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Remember that this "essence" must be converted from "potential" to "real" and that requires an educated mature mind-set by the parents.
Just so that you know, I left school at 14 but I continued to read and educate myself, even now, I am still learning at least 1+ hour (minimum) every day.
There Is Still Hope
Even after learning all of the above and doing all of the wrong things, there is still hope to rectify mistakes and help your child be successful.
One of the most brilliant studies on reversal of fortunes was done by Dr Joseph Sparling and team. It is called "The Abecedarian Study"
by Dr Joseph Sparling et al.
Final Thought
The Abecedarian Study emphatically proves that children are a product of their environment and that "positive" change is possible - with outstanding benefits for all of society.
Have you ever seen a pregnant woman (literally) radiate?
I have on several occasions.
And you do know what they all had in common?
They all "believed" that they were having a baby to help fulfill the the design of the Creator and this was their contribution + they were in a loving relationship.
This sounds too simple, doesn't it?
Yet, there it is.
The mental road map they were following took them straight to the source of the Creator.
This is what the Dalai Lama means when he says to "be" happy. Seek to be closer to "god" whatever you perceive "god" to be.
In some of his talks, he actually expounds this.